At a Crossroads?
You’ve done everything you can to help your partner but now it's time to focus on you.
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You think you should leave, but you’re not ready- even though you've thought about it— it still scares you.
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You worry about your family and how they will be affected if you make the wrong decision.
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You wonder if there’s anything more you can do so that you can stay, but also, be happy.
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You know that deep down inside you must figure this out-you can't keep living in indecision.
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This is your last effort to get the help and/or the answers you need.
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You want to feel stronger, more in control, and finally at peace—
no matter what happens next.
How would it feel if you took control?
Taking control doesn’t mean you have to make any big decisions or bully anyone around. It means focusing on what you can control; your health, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your confidence. ​
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Imagine this:
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Waking up calm and no longer feeling consumed by thoughts of what you "should do" today?​
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Setting boundaries that protect your emotions and your family, without feeling guilty or fearful of retaliation.​
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Making the best decision about what’s right for you and your family—whether you choose to stay or explore other options.
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This journey is about you, not about changing him.
Hello, I'm Deanna and I felt stuck & confused too.
For 20 years, I tried everything to make my relationship work. I talked, I hoped, I sought professional help—but nothing changed. I wasn’t ready to leave, but I couldn’t keep living in this chaos anymore.
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That’s when I realized: It wasn’t about changing him; it was about figuring out what I wanted, how I was going to get there and building my confidence to take action! When I started doing things for me I moved forward in a way that felt right for me.
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Now, I help women like you take back control of their lives, without pressure to make any final decisions.
You don’t have to go through this alone and you don't have to have this hanging over you everyday.
Nothing hurts more than watching the person you love choose alcohol over you and your family.
Why you shouldn't stay stuck anymore.
If you don’t make a change now, you risk staying trapped in the same cycles:
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Constantly worrying about your partner’s drinking and its impact on your family.
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Living in fear of making the wrong decision, unsure of what the future holds.
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Losing more of yourself while waiting for things to improve.
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And most importantly, losing more time. How long have you been thinking you must do something?
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But here’s the truth:
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You have the power to change your life, even if he doesn’t change his behavior.
Ready to to feel in control of your life?
Download my Free Boundaries Guide to learn how to set boundaries that support you and help you find the clarity you’ve been searching for.