I Know What It’s Like to Lose Yourself-
While Trying to Hold It All Together

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I was married to a kind, funny, generous man. We had two amazing boys, a successful real estate business, multiple properties, and a vacation home. On the outside, it looked like the dream. But behind the scenes, I was drowning.

My ex struggled with drinking for years. I kept hoping things would get better. I went to therapy, Al-Anon, and every group I could find—looking for the magic answer to fix him.

But what I didn’t see at the time was this: I was losing myself while trying to save someone else.

I became the peacekeeper, the over-doer the woman who could hold it all together—until I couldn’t. I didn’t know what I wanted anymore. I just knew I couldn’t keep living like that.

Eventually, we separated. And in the wreckage, I found something I hadn’t felt in years: space to breathe. Space to ask, “What do I want?”

That moment changed everything.

Who I Help

Today, I coach women who are exactly where I was:

In a relationship with someone who drinks too much
Tired of walking on eggshells
Sick of second-guessing themselves
Afraid to leave, but even more afraid to keep living this way

They don’t want fluff. They want real support. They don’t need fixing. They need a path forward.

That’s what I offer.

How I Coach

I won’t tell you what to do. I’ll help you figure out what you want—and how to get there with strength and self-respect.

I coach with compassion, but I don’t sugarcoat. I will fight for you when you doubt yourself. I will hold space when you’re unraveling. And I will call out the patterns that are keeping you stuck—because that’s what real support looks like.

This isn’t about leaving or staying. It’s about finding yourself again, no matter what your partner does.

Why Me

I’ve lived it. I’ve done the work. And I’ve helped hundreds of women step out of emotional chaos and into calm, confidence, and control.

I now live with an incredibly supportive partner of 16 years. We have a dog, a cat, and a home filled with sea glass from every beach we’ve walked.

But this life didn’t happen by accident. It happened because I stopped waiting—and started fighting for myself.

That’s what I want for you.

Ready to Start?

If you’re stuck in the cycle and sick of pretending everything’s fine—I see you.

And I can help.

Let’s talk about what’s really going on. And what you want next.

I’ll fight for you. But you’ve got to fight for you too.